Home Update Number Two
As well as a life update because I just over all needed to have a little vent session & hopefully it can help some of you all out with anything you are dealing with or going through at the moment. It has been 7 months since Spencer and I moved into our house & it is something that will always be a work in progress I have learned, like a relationship. I was pushing to get so much done before having a house warming party I realized I just needed to have it because I will always be changing something! Change is literally the only constant we are presented in life and I have learned very quickly at 25 that if you don’t embrace and roll with these changes they will swallow you up.
Owning our first home and with the new change of my career in the past 6 months life has simply been a whirlwind but in a good way but also in a way that has taught me so much about myself. I was definitely always one of those girls who felt very grounded and that I knew what I wanted in life and what I stood for etc. Well the last year has shown me I don’t know anything, yes I am a confident person who semi knows what I want to do with my life next but I never in a million years thought I would be loving a sales career or a career in recruiting. As well as I never imagine to be 25 in a committed relationship, owning a house, and three dogs with someone. One thing I want to bring to light though is no matter how positive I am and how positive I choose to think and live my life, I have those dark days too where I am struggling and feel like the whole world is against me. There are days I just want cry and I am learning that that is OK and completely normal to have these ups and downs in life.
For so long I think I was only focused on the highs of life and not understanding how much we grow as individuals from the lows we experience. 7 months later and is my house completed exactly how I want it to be? Nope & that’s ok. Is everyday the most amazing day at work ever? Nope & again that is OK. Am I starting to push myself in ways I never imagined and learn more about myself in my professional & personal life? Yes & that is more than okay because you are open to these constant changes that make life fun. I am a big believer in that things truly do happen in life for a reason, even the ones we don’t want to deal with, so learn something from it and you will be just fine.
Since I didn’t really share any house updates specifically in this post please feel free to comment on any of the photos I share!